I'm so sorry that I didn't receive your message via email and just noticed it today in 2014! If you're still searching, I did find Josephine Relyea born in Lowell, MA on Oct. 6, 1882 in Ancestry's records. Her parents were Chauncy Relyea and Brigid Phelan. I saw that there is a death record on Ancestry for "Josephin M. Graham" who died July 30, 1965 in Los Angeles. She was born Oct. 6, 1882 in MA and her mother's maiden name was Phelan. I've attached the Lowell, MA birth record.1882%20Lowell%2C%20MA%20Birth%20Register%20for%20Josephine%20Relyea.jpg
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