My branch of Haines' descended from James Haines of Salem/Southampton circa 1637 arrival. A couple of generations later they are living in Morristown (Revolutionary War time) and marry into the Tuttle, Ogden and Munson families. My kit number is A012273, my Dad's A460850 and my brother's A832713. We didn't match.
Take heart, there are a lot of Haines/Haynes researchers out there.